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People say “You have Changed” Hey friends, After long break I am back with this most asked topic. First of all I would like to thank all UoT fans for supporting with more than 65000+ hits and still growing. Thank you. Today the talk is for the people who comment that “Dude, you have changed”. So this article will be answer to all such people who have changed their exteriors without any change in interiors. Have you ever wondered what we used to be in School, then Junior college and further life? If we try to look in the past then we hardly notice any changes in our behavioral patterns. This is because we never tried to figure it out, we just adapted to TIME and SITUATION requirements. People around us feel those odd pulses which we keep reflecting after inculcating changes. But what is this CHANGE and How it occurred? Let us understand CHANGE. School is a place where few of us build a firm character and later on it is carried over entire life. Junior...

Achievement vs Satisfaction Hello friends, today back with one of the toughest topic to explain. People get influenced by others around them. This provoke them to raise their bars and lead with full enthusiasm. Achievement is something which you get as output of your efforts. Achievement is easy to gain but does Achievement bring Satisfaction? Do both aspects go hand in hand? Let us explore the answers. When can you say that you are actually Satisfied? What Satisfaction is in reality? Satisfaction is a feeling that makes you believe that whatever you did was right. This feeling terminates the greed of going beyond the already set benchmark. This feeling does not urge any revenge, nor does it gives false overview of what is done. Feeling satisfied motivates you to keep going and again come to this state. Achievement is easy to define as anything you achieve after hard work. It might be successful career, beloved partner, increasing business, social image etc. Achiev...

Today it’a all about a common sense theory which I will explain in my way so named as “Color Theory” Consider two different individuals A and B. They have a relation between them. They might be strangers, friends, couple, colleagues, family etc any possibility which ties them up. B loves color  Red(R)  and hates color  Green(G) . Now understand the further situation. B is standing in front of color  Green  and A observed B during this time. A assumed that B has some relation with color  green  so A evaluates that B is somewhere involved in color  green . It’s right because though B hates  green  color still this act is involvement. What A will do is nothing but try talking to B about color  green . A will talk everything about color  green  and will think that its comforting B. But actually B is getting irritated of A as talk is all about the color B hates. So naturally after sometime B will avoid talking to A,...

Top 5 Tips for Healthy Relationship Hey friends, today I am going to share the 5 most important tips for sustaining any kind of relationship. 1.Stop Interfering Friends, this is most important point to be underlined. Whenever you try to help out your partner by arguing on sensitive topics then its your concern. This concern is taken as interference by your partner and things go worse if this happens. Your partner might not be comfortable about sharing some sensitive things. If you force your partner to know it then things will be misunderstood easily because everyone needs their own space. To cope up with this, let your partner share things on their own. Just assure your partner that you will handle it with care. That’s it. 2. Be Patient Friends, every person in this world is not straight forward. There are people who take time to settle down, to share things, to express feelings etc. We have a tendency to rush things. Please avoid this because if your partner is introvert ...

Why things go wrong? Actually this question is frequently troubling us,Isn’t it? Everything is going as per our desire and suddenly things turn into disaster. This happens with everyone, no one is special. Have you ever thought why actually things go wrong? Let’s understand this statement “Why things go wrong”…. Friends, basically whatever we do is planned in our brain, brain commands and we end up with doing what was planned . Many of us complain that it went wrong because said plan didn’t work…..But they fail to understand that whenever things are just to move in wrong direction, our brain understands them and changes plan to sustain the situation changes that were about to destroy our first plan. So our success is planned and failure too. Its just priorities of plans that are applied on different situations. Why we have a tendency of complaining or why we feel sad, hurt and angry when things go wrong? Actually we gave situations and other people to make our day gloomy. Don...